{"id":4913,"date":"2022-06-01T08:46:57","date_gmt":"2022-06-01T08:46:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.crossroadscarerk.org\/?p=4913"},"modified":"2023-06-30T12:47:24","modified_gmt":"2023-06-30T12:47:24","slug":"why-volunteering-for-crossroads-care-is-so-rewarding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/crossroadscarerk.org\/why-volunteering-for-crossroads-care-is-so-rewarding\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Volunteering for Crossroads Care is so Rewarding"},"content":{"rendered":"
\u2018There\u2019s this saying that when you volunteer here you become part of the Crossroads family, and I believe that\u2019s true.\u2019 Volunteer, Heather Mathew, talks about why volunteering for Crossroads Care is so rewarding…<\/strong><\/p>\n ‘Motivated by the lack of care available to my parents and my desire for other people in my situation to not feel so alone, I started volunteering five years ago for Crossroads Care at the Caring Caf\u00e9 for Carers looking after people with dementia and their cared-for.<\/p>\n \u2018Volunteering at the caf\u00e9, amongst people who understood, helped me to cope with what my family were going through. I found it hugely helpful to be able to give my time to make a difference to families experiencing what we were.<\/p>\n \u2018I finally managed to get my parents into a small, supportive care home and happily, we celebrated their 60th<\/sup> wedding anniversary there. My father stood up to make a speech and the Care Home put on a lovely party \u2013 it was such a contrast to the horrific ten months they\u2019d endured alone at home, and it is a memory that has given me great comfort since I lost both of them three years ago.<\/p>\n \u2018I continued volunteering with Crossroads right through the pandemic, making calls to vulnerable people as well as delivering shopping to people who were self-isolating.\u2019<\/p>\n \u2018There\u2019s this saying that when you volunteer here you become part of the Crossroads family, and I believe that\u2019s true. At Crossroads, volunteers feel valued; you get training and the charity is very supportive. It\u2019s been a very positive experience for me.<\/p>\n \u2018It\u2019s such an important thing for Carers and the people they care for to come together and socialise, and facilitating that is a great privilege. To see our guests, laugh, relax and enjoy themselves is a wonderful thing, and I always leave a caf\u00e9 session feeling happy and fulfilled.<\/p>\n ‘Volunteering is essential to my life. It’s a form of self care \u2014 laughter, friendships, belonging, community \u2014 and I would recommend it to anyone. Find a cause that you care about, where you feel your skills and interest can make a difference, and get involved. You won’t regret it.’<\/p>\n\u2018When both my parents, who lived in Norfolk, became ill \u2013 my father with dementia \u2014 it soon became clear to me that there was no support available to them, even though they were barely coping at home. I found myself trying to look after them from a distance, battling with the authorities to get them what they were entitled to, whilst watching my parent’s independence and ability to care for themselves dwindle away.<\/p>\n